Too much is too much when it hurts to breathe. When thinking about something gives you that feeling like you’re underwater and you’ve been holding your breath too long and you wonder how much longer you can go before you give up. When the cons outweigh the pros. When you realize something’s not worth the energy you’re putting into it. When you cry out of frustration over something. When you think about running away. When you actually run away. When you have elaborate fantasies about your ideal situation. When you wish you never ever had to grow up.